Feminine Magnetism: When the Universe Asks If You’re Ready to Receive

The honest-to-god magick I’ve seen happen as a result of doing feminine embodiment work never ceases to amaze me.

So many times, what I have experienced, or seen in my clients, is that serendipities start to bloom like wildflowers. You don’t “DO” anything, but everything inside you starts to rearrange, and then, like magick, the world around you starts to rearrange.

If I could teach only ONE thing about magnetism it would be this: the world arises to meet you, in response to who you’re being.

If you change something about yourself, you effectively change THE WHOLE WORLD.

✨ Opportunities open.

✨ The stars feel like they’re aligning.

✨ You find the exact right book.

✨ A friend calls you out of the blue to invite you to the exact kind of event that will catalyze you forward.

✨ A sense of ease, synchronicity, and momentum starts to unfold.

This is magnetism in motion.

The sacred feedback loop of resonance.

The field saying: yes, we feel you.

But here’s what most people don’t talk about...

That same expansion?

That same frequency elevation?

It also calls in the next layer of initiation.

I want to share a story with you.

This wasn’t recent, but it left an imprint.

I had been deep in the work of reconnecting to my body, exploring what I need to tell the truth about, getting honest about my desires.

I had come to a place of clarity about an important relationship. I knew what I wanted. I knew what I needed to say.

But I stayed silent.

It felt too heavy. Too emotional. Too hard.

And honestly, I was preemptively assuming how it would be received – not well.

Eventually, I reached the point where I had to speak up.
And – testament to all the growth work I was doing – I was able to express myself fully, cleanly, and powerfully.

The initial conversation went well (so I thought), and I felt so incredibly light and free for having let this big ol’ tiger out of its cage (aka all of the energy I was holding inside about what needed to be spoken).

But the next day, I found myself on the receiving end of a disorienting part 2 of that conversation. Basically, this person, who I cared for deeply, dismissed my entire emotional experience. They cast doubt on what I had shared, in a way that made me feel like I couldn’t even trust my own feelings.

It shook me.

And then, just a few days later, it happened again with someone else close to me.

I shared an opinion. And suddenly my entire perception of reality was being questioned.

I assume these are somewhat common experiences in our polarized topsy-turvy world of AI and “what is really real” and “who gets to say so”... I imagine you’ve felt this way too so you’ll know what I mean when I say the ground beneath me felt unsteady.

Instead of feeling solid because I expressed myself, I felt wobbly and confused.

But then… something clicked.

The realization dropped in light a lightning bolt: ohhh, this is a test.

Not an indication of being on the wrong course.

Just the next doorway of initiation.

Why does this happen?

Because when we expand, we radiate.

We are becoming more of ourselves, and claiming more space, truth, and power.

And the Universe, with all its intelligence, asks:

✨ Do you mean it? Are you sure?

✨ Can you really hold it – even when it’s challenged?

These are not setbacks. They are pattern recalibrations.

When your energy shifts, the structures around you must either rise to meet you – or fall away.

And sometimes they’re not “tests” but opportunities to practice this new way of being.

The universe says, “So, you want to be more solid in your boundaries? Great! Here’s an opportunity to practice expressing and holding boundaries.”

That feeling when you realize: oh right, I asked for this. LOL.

Some truths about tests and magnetism:

If you can understand why tests happen and you know to expect them, you’ll be able to ride the waves without collapsing or settling for the old ways of doing things. When you respond to tests by holding the new energy you’re stepping into, it creates a lot of magnetism!

1. Tests are not punishments or signs of misdirection. They are pattern recalibrations.

When we expand your frequency, the energetic structures around you have to shift to match, or fall away. This can look like chaos, but it’s often just old alignments crumbling to make way for the new.

2. The “test” is not about the situation, it’s about your response.

The test isn’t “bad things happening.” Rather it’s about how you respond to the friction. Do you collapse? Revert to how you were being before? Go silent again? Or do you anchor deeper into the self you’re claiming?

3. Expansion creates disruption.

Energetic fields seek coherence. When you change your vibration, especially if you're embodying more truth, clarity, and power, it destabilizes any relational system or belief pattern that depended on your previous state. This can feel like backlash, but it’s often just reverberation.

4. Tests often come in disguise.

They won’t usually look like easy “pop quizzes.” They’ll come wrapped in emotional triggers, familiar scripts, and uncanny timing. Which is why awareness is key so you don’t get sucked into drama, but you understand what’s really happening and what’s being asked of you.

5. Initiation always includes the possibility of forgetting.

A true initiation always invites amnesia – moments when you forget why you even set out to create something different in the first place, or where you doubt everything. That’s part of the process. Expansion isn’t never forgetting who you are… it’s remembering again when you do.

6. You don’t have to pass “perfectly.” You just have to return.

You’re not failing if you don’t ace the test with grace and poise. You’re being asked to come home to yourself.

7. Tests can come from inside yourself too.

It’s not always something external like an extra bill, pushback, or criticism. Sometimes your own inner patterns, wounds, and stories come up to the surface. Hello overwhelm, fear, doubt, and inner critic!

🜁 The bottom line is that tests are a sign that the work is working.

You asked to expand. And now life is asking if you're ready to hold what comes next.